you know, I didn't date with girls, I prefer boys so far))) yes, I have little experience and I agree that the more people (let's say like that, not just girls)) you get to know, the more you understand them) but are we talking about dating for some time with someone or just having sex once or twice and goonbuying?? if you're the first case - than you're right, go on with gaining such experience. But just sex won't let you know "women" better.. maybe just from one side..or two))
and why are you - boys-are not ready for relstions, I wonder?? is it so hard to be with only one girl at a time or what?? or maybe it's about the scary word "responsibility"???)

Exion: so that's the answer - for you all this stuff like love and feelings is like a game, you don't take people seriously..that's a pity I think. 'cause in this race for new feelings and emotions you're loosing one thing - you're still alone. Even if you have someone for the night or two - it's an illusion. Or u're too sellfish to be with someone else, to love someone except your great EGO!!!! )) and about dating with young girls of 16 - I was sure u like these girls, it's not surprising...who was saying something about unpredictable guys...u're all the same))
by the way, when I was 15 I fell in love with a guy and dated him for 5 years..and it's a normal thing for me))

a funny joke=))))))))(pity there are no smiling faces on this forum(()
and why it's so important for u to have sex on the first date??? are you hurrying somewhere???)) in our country we have a problem - a lack of boys, so you won't be alone anyway, believe me)))
I have one conclusion so far: you've met bad girls in your life - that's a bad luck!!! I know a lot of girls who won't have two boys at one time. First of all - it's not good, to treat him this way, and the second reason - it's a problem to find at least one proper guy, so two - is an unreal luck_))))
and one more thing which I have too( a kind of feature of character or whatever )- people now are too captious!! I don't know why, but I search for ideal boy too and that's bad 'cause we are not ideal as well. But I love myself too much to admit it =)

Oh c'mon, guys!! it sounds so ridiculous!!!
Exion, do you really believe that any person deeply in love can use your advice and it will help?? well I don't!! I experienced much pain in love and can say that many partners who you change like gloves every day won't help you to forget the one you love and suffer from...it's just the way to escape from the real actions!!!
Fly90, of course you shouldn't loose hope, but just be careful with choosing girls..evoding serious relations is not the way out!!
and finally, what doesn't kill us, makes us stronger..u'd better learn on this mistake and go on searching for the one destined for you!!

`ve just read all the conversation... I think that a good marriage is not only the result of one's sexual experience. Of course, it metters, but not for all people as well. And I'm not agree that you will get to know women better by dating lots of girls. It's not the thing with cars as Natascha said. It seems you consider love to be somethin' predictable, but it's not..you can't count all the steps as if in chess. And one more thing.. you spoke a lot about marriage in the first message. But you are not ready for serious relations. Can you imagine that you've already lost the one and only woman you need 'cause you want to have as much sexual experience as possible???

Tileno, u're funny))) you always start ur messages with the question "what's the meaning of..."))) a true philologist, like Dal` and Johnes)) can u just share ur opinion with us??? PLEASE!!!)))))

I think that the proverb "A friend in need is a friend indeed" is life-proved... 'cause people like to call each other friends and they even can behave like that, but in certain moments they begin to show their bad side...

after reading your opinions I thought that men really can be friends, and women...only being far away from each other....not very optimistic conclusion I should say((

you know, I sometimes understand why some girls date with the foreigners (especially the muslims)...their men know how to court beautifully, how to make a woman fall in love with them...they are always persistant and if they wanna this girl, they'll do everything to get her...Russian guys are too lazy (I think coz in our country the ammount of men is less than of women and some of you just seat back and do nothing, knowing that you'll never be alone).
though I'm not one of that girls, may be I'm a little natioanalistic in this question)

maybe you're right about 17, but don't touch 19 - it's a very mature age))) at this time lots of girls are married and have babies. I don't think it's only because of bad condoms)))))

Well, may be it helps only to men...I won't argue that every person chose the way out himself...
but still...wher ur friend dated with his GF for 7 years, it was another type of relations..they were very close to each other,sharing lots of thing frm bad to good..And I believe it's worth all the suffers..when he changes partners, he doesn't come into such close contact with them, he simple doesn't let them into his soul, his heart..it's like an ostrich hiding his head in the sand..

Well, to start with - I believe in love at first sight...'cause I had some experience of this kind, yet not successful for me)) but why not?? anything can happen in this weird world=)
And I do think that marriage should always be about love. In other case - what's the whole stuff for??? I'd better be alone than share my life with someone I can't bear. Even if I like the person...without love there's nothing to do about marriage..it's nonsense!
single sex schools?? it's not useful, as not to say harmful. Nowadays we have so many difficulties with communication, and if children were separated and could spend their time only with their equal sexes they would be crippled in terms of relations with the opposite sexes.. nay, that's a bad idea!!!

so I see that you have such friends...and have you ever doubted in them?? 'cause people are not ideal and sometimes we make such strange things which we always pity for later..

my dream is to live for some time abroad, in England or Spain...I wanna be inside the culture about which I've learnt so many things and check if they're true..
and also I have the same dream as Exion - to have a house facing the ocean or sea...

so personally I agree with you on all these points. I'm gonna make a career too without getting married 'cause it will certainly interfere me.
But marriage and long relations are not the same thing.. u can love someone, constantly meeting each other, even live together if u have such possibility, but not make a family. It's a different thing for me..

yea, the architecture there is awesome!!! I like Casa Batllo y Mil built by Gaudi and the famous Sagrada Familia....I share your dream)))

you know, Candyy, the thing is that at the age of 23 I will graduate from my university, it's only the beginning of my mature life. So it's not the best time for loosing freedom!!! Having a baby takes all woman's time, strength and a HUGE responsibility. I won't be ready for that step, I'm petty sure..
a kind of simple arithmetics: making a career takes about 3-5 years( in the best case), so now we have the age of 28. At this time - ok, I can get married and have babies (If I find a proper man, which is very hard)) Anyway, nearer to 30!!!

wholly agree with you... people have become too selfish, maybe that's the reason...actually they come to us only when THEY need us, and visa versa doesn't work...when u need help, they sometimed even don't want to listen to u...

Well, I can't say that I'm a patriot...coz I don't like lots of things about my country, like our government and its programmes, social conventions and so on... may be I would like to live in another country some day, but it will be more difficult than to live here...because this is our motherland, we feel here at home..and noone waits for us with a warm welcome there, we're strangers for them...like they are strangers for us when they come to live here...
And about nationalism..you know,I'm not against multinational country as it is, but still I sometimes understand people who are against foreigners, especially some nationalities...coz now in my own country I more and more feel like a stranger, a foreigner. Some of them behave like they are already natives and it freaks me out!!!

thanx)) a good saying indeed=) but strange that the author is a man, and a pope, don't u think so??-)

noooo, as I've heard the Americans proved that there's no lofe on Mars, so...this is not possible anymore)))
and about friendship...now I start doubting if it exists at all, doesn't matter among women or men....but it's just another discussion..

strange things happen in the world.... In Moscow in December it's 10 degrees ABOVE zero, The North Pole is melting, the Americans elected a BLACK president, and Tileno WON"T ARGUE with me at least on one point...hmm...ARMAGEDDON IS COMING!!!!! SavE YoUrSElvES!!!)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))